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And a lot of these gay men want to transition from being tops to being bottoms, because they don’t have to get hard to bottom. Goldstein also told me that he sees a lot of gentlemen, especially older gay gentlemen, when, you know, their penises starts being less reliable. You can actually dilate the area to get it bigger.ĭr. Goldstein, in trying to make it look pretty, also helped him with the underlying pathologies. Tom went in saying, “Listen, if I can’t use it, at least make it look nice.” And then Dr. Goldstein helped him work through his issues. His practice is called “ Bespoke Surgical,” the most euphemistic butthole-surgery place you could ever think of! Most other places are like, “Colorectal Blah Blah Blah.” But no, he went to Bespoke, and Dr. Goldstein, the gentleman in New York who specializes in this.
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He couldn’t have receptive anal sex at all. Tom said the recovery was painful, and that the scarring was too much. The doctor was much more aggressive, and didn’t really consider Tom’s sexual health.
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Tom was a gentleman I spoke with, who went to a surgeon because he had some skin tags.
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Will you tell us a bit about Tom’s plight? Because I found it very moving. Your article told the harrowing story of a man named Tom. And also, when they remove hemorrhoids or other similar problems in the butthole, that naturally makes it a bit tighter. And so that by treating those pathologies, you actually make it look better. The doctors I talked to said that when people come in and say, “Oh I think my butthole looks gross,” that complaint is usually a symptom of an underlying pathology, whether that’s hemorrhoids or skin tags or anal warts. And a lot of these procedures I found, especially for tightening, are for people who have fecal incontinence, as they call it, and they’ve sort of been reappropriated for people who just want it tighter. I think just so that like it’s tighter and and pretty-looking, in case people are looking at it. And they want it right and tight back there for various and assorted reasons, some sexual, some otherwise. and are done having babies, and that wreaks a little bit of havoc on your butthole. He said gets a lot of women who have had babies. And for him, it was split evenly between men and women. And he said about 20 percent of his practice now is anal-rejuvenation services. One of the doctors I spoke to, he’s a colorectal surgeon, he does a lot of cancer work.
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They said it costs between $1,500 and $2,500 to get laser-type treatments on the butthole. I talked to a practice that is very popular for doing that outside of Chicago. It’s kind of like the same way they use lasers to remove tattoos or skin discoloration. And they use lasers to fight discoloration, so it’s similar to bleaching. Then, there are some people that are using lasers, which is similar to the way they use lasers for vaginal rejuvenation, where it’s a probe that goes in, and there are lasers, and it tightens the tissues around there. There are some that treat discoloration, or will resurface so it’s smoother - I guess as smooth as your puckered butthole can get. And there are all sorts of other things like fissures, fistulas, and loose skin. He said 90 percent of his practice is anal rejuvenation-type services, and that can include anything from removing skin tags, anal warts, hemorrhoids, and tightening for people that feel like they’ve gotten loose, or loosening for people who think they’re too tight. I talked to a doctor here in New York, who has here and in L.A. So, anal rejuvenation is especially popular for gay men. There are lots of butthole dangers out there. You published an article in Vice entitled, “ Anal Rejuvenation Is Making Works of Art Out of American Butts. This is a partial transcript of New York Magazine ’s Sex Lives podcast.